I'm a wedding planner!!!

Some of you may know that I got asked to put on a wedding last Wed. evening by my inlaws who serve as mission leaders in a Spanish branch in our church. I was told to decorate a room in the church for a wedding ceremony and to keep it simple. I had until Friday. That's right! Only 2 days to pull it together, and I had never really done this before, so I went to work. I hit Martha Stewart Weddings online and started looking for things I could make myself, to dress up the room. I immediately fell in love with these paper ornaments that hang from the ceiling and the everything else was designed around that. I chose teal based off what my mother in law told me the lady would be wearing. I made the bouquets and boutineers and thought the orange was the perfect accent color. All in all it turned out beautifully and I was really proud of myself. I was also blessed with an amazing woman who had a ton of stuff I could borrow and helped me along the way.

Here is the bride's bouquet.

 

These are the paper ornaments I made.

 

I also made these to go on top of the refreshment table. Love, love, love, them!

 

 

Everything came together perfectly and I was glad I had the opportunity to serve and help make someone else's special day memorable and nice. I enjoyed the process and who knows, maybe I could have a future in this. I did have several single girls there ask me to do their weddings someday and a couple of people told me I should go into business. That felt good and made all the stress worth it.

A Sure Sign You Are A Kid

My poor kids have the worst looking legs right now. Sophia especially! She came in, this evening alone, with three new scrapes on her legs and feet. She can't heal from the previous one before she gets another. Can you guess which ones are hers?

Not a Good Day!

Today was just not good. Not good at all. All of my happy thoughts on motherhood flew out the window and I was back to being the witch again. Sophia pretty much summed it up at dinner tonight. "Mom, I just don't like to behave!"

I'm praying I'm just hormonal, because I physically feel sick. My emotions are raging and I feel like I'm about to have a heart attack. My 3 and 2 year old are in a "NO" phase with everything I say. They completely ignore me. And after being ignored all day and constantly exhausted by how much talking I have to do, it's no wonder I'm ready to give them away by 5:00. EVERYTHING is a battle. From picking up your shoes, to putting your own food in your mouth, to brushing teeth. I feel like I'm invisible most of the time.
I knew it was going to be a tough day when we set out to go get lunch and my wallet ends up missing. I couldn't find it anywhere. We were all starving, which means I've got three (but particularly one) really cranky kids. We drove to the pool to see if anyone had turned it in. No luck there. So when we finally pull back in the garage, Sophia starts in refusing to get out of the car unless I carry her. I was just not in the mood. I wanted to go in the house and get lunch going. She always picks the most inoportune time to be stubborn. She would not get out of the car, so I left her in there. Gabriela, Julianne, and I were about done with lunch, when Miguel walks in. I sent him out there to give her a pep talk, but she still wasn't budging. This is one of those moments, where I stop and think: if I go get her then she won and we'll have to keep repeating this senario, so I just hold my ground. She never came in, but fell asleep in her chair. I had Miguel go get her out and carry her to her bed and then she refused to take a nap!
:ater, Miguel thought it would be a good idea for me to take the younger two with me to the grocery store after I dropped Gabriela off at dance. I've gotten into couponing, which means I  need to concentrate a little more at the grocery store. The Smiths in Orem has these little kid sized grocery carts, so I thought that might make them behave a little more. I was WRONG! The entire shopping trip I talked more than I've ever talked in my life. It was like herding crazed pigs. They would run and smash into each other and I was deathly afraid they were going to run into the back of my feet with those things. They would just pull anything off the shelf and throw it in. Smack into the displays almost sending them toppling over. Oh and did I mention that Sophia is dressed up in a dance costume. Yeah I know, it just added to the spectacle. I could feel the steam coming out of my ears. But it gets better. You see at the check stand I had the girls pull their carts into the aisle and told them to start unloading them. I forgot something and ran to the aisle behind me to grab it and when I get back. Julianne is gone. My first thought was to send Sophia after her, thinking she was just on the next aisle over, but no Sophia disappears too...WITH MY PURSE! I wanted to sit down right there and have a good cry. Wave my white flag, surrender, and go home. Call in the reinforcements. Where is my ghost hitter? My relief pitcher? Why, why, why???
I told the cashier that I would love to pay, but I have to go and find my kids first. It took a good couple of minutes to track them down and wouldn't you know it, while I'm trying to pay, they vanish again. I needed some handcuffs and chain them to me. So I'm walking around the grocery store with all my bags in the shopping cart looking for them. I see them behind me barrelling around a corner and I flag Julianne down. I wanted to pinch their heads off. I grabbed on to Julianne's arm and held on for dear life. She wasn't getting away again. She screamed all the way throught the parking lot until I put (o.k. maybe threw) her in the van, scolding them to no end and telling them how mad I was. I probably could have thrown up I was that mad.

And then there's dinner time. Sophia thought she would dig her heels in again. Begging and pleading for me to feed her. This is what they are notorious for. When I'm at my whits end, and don't want to look at them, they want me to do everything for them and wont let Miguel do a dang thing. I begged Sophia to hurry up and finish. I already had her sisters in bed. Once she finished, she then wanted a cookie like everybody else had. She eats it at turtle pace and meanders outside (I go and drag her inside after already telling her no) and then she goes and gets on the couch and stares out he window. Did I mention that I've asked her to go to the bathroom to get her teeth brushed like a thousand times already. I have to make her go in there and then she folds her arms and locks her mouth shut and then covers her mouth, all because she doesn't like the kind of toothpaste I put on her brush. I just said fine, you'll go to bed without having them brushed. I guess you can get holes in your teeth. I put her in bed and shut the door. Of course she comes out crying because she wants them brushed now. I brush her teeth, put her in bed and then look down. What do I see? OH, just my wallet lying on the floor empty! I think I'm going to kill someone. I proclaim, "Kids, You need a break from me and I most certainly need a break from you. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. Good Night."

Like I said, it just wasn't a good day. I can't wait for them to go grocery shopping with their kids someday. I'm going to come to just spy on them. That will be sweet revenge!

UPDATE: After I posted this, I went back to the store for some more shopping and when I went to check out. I pull out my wallet and I have no money! My girls took out all my money and credit cards from my wallet. I had to leave my stuff, drive home, and then go back to get it. It was like the knock out punch of the night! Those girls are going to get a talkin' to in the morning.

Snipets

This is what you get at 5:00 when you've been at the swimming pool for the last three hours. Sophia went and got her blankets for her and was tending to her baby sister until she passed out on the couch. Her parents, however, wanted to keep her awake long enough to eat dinner and then get her tucked in her bed for the night. There was no way we could have kept her up any longer. Bless her heart.

And on another note, this sunset yesterday night was amazing! I just couldn't get enough of it as I sat on my front steps watching the girls milk the last few minutes of daylight before coming in for the night. Oh, and the moon has been spectacular too!

Summer Fun

I love summer. I love my kids even more. I love dusk. It seems we all get a second wind at dusk. My kids have been going to bed LATE. But they've also been sleeping in which is SO NICE! We've been bike riding, running through sprinklers, putting the bubble machine to good use, and just takin' in easy!

I feel really blessed that I get to stay home with these kids. As we were riding our bikes from the school after voting, my heart was flooded with thankfullness that I get to witness these little girls grow up. I've been there for it all and am so glad I haven't had to miss a thing. Nobody knows these babies like I do. It may just about break me on some days, but I wouldn't miss being here for anything. No worldly luxuries could make me want to miss them growing up. Just feeling really blessed I guess.  Speaking about dusk, something overcomes my kids and they feel the need to strip to their underwear. It has happened on several occasions. I guess they feel free and uninhibited without clothes and their smiles couldn't get any bigger. Poor Julianne, she's desperate to discard whatever she can and she usually ditches her diaper if she can't get her shirt off. Luckily I got a semi discrete picture of her hiding behind the garden. Yep, she's fully naked behind there.

Swim Lessons

Wow! So we did our first ever swim lessons. Today was day two, and my kids LOVE IT!!! Sophia was a little hesitant yesterday and said she didn't want to do it as we were driving there, but oh boy, her tune changed once she saw the pool. I know for a fact, that she was the first one to get in the water in her class. I only wished it was a little more advanced, because she floats on her back in the bathtub, if you know what I'm saying. But hey, it is just a fun time for them to be in the water, and I don't have to be in a swimsuit. Her little buddy there is Brenna, and we ended up taking lessons at the same time as all the kids in our babysitting group. So it's fun for all!

Gabriela loves it a lot too. Her teacher told her to get her hair wet (meaning stick your head under water), yet she found a better way to do it.  But her teacher caught on to her shenanegans and told her to put her face in.  They then played a game where there was a fish in the middle and they had to swim out of the hoola hoop. Gabriela chose to be a star fish. How fitting. The only problem we have is that it is never long enough. And once again, Julianne has to be the bystander and watch her sisters have all the fun. Her times a comin' though.

Summer Jobs

Well, we really wanted the girls to start pulling there weight around here, so I made them a chore chart (I've tried this a billion times before), but I've put a new spin on it. You see, during Gabriela's kindergarten assesment, the teacher informed me that she didn't know her coins very well. She would be right. I haven't gone over that with the kids, so I decided to kill two birds with one stone. I made a chart with 10 small circles (dime sized) and drew a big picture of a dollar at the top. Each time they do a chore or help out they get a dime to tape to one of their circles. 10 dimes = one dollar. Brillant!!! Well the girls earned two dimes each today by helping us with these family tasks.   It started out innocently and then led to this!

  All the while, Gabriela sat on top of a dirt pile digging holes. So we had her catch up by shucking corn and putting dishes away. Maybe this time our charts will work (crossing my fingers and holding my breath!)